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Friday, January 13, 2012

What Friends?............They Come, They Go...........

   "Don't expect anything from a friend but understand why it is the way it is." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

      I don't except anything from my friends but just want them to understand me and come hang out every now and then. I know everyone got their own life they gotta live. So I understand what being a friend is about. Here is an ex-sample, I didn' have a ride to work one day and so I walked then a friend/co- worker ask me why didn't I call him and ask for a ride because we live near by each other. I said it's cool and I don't like bothering people.
       I think that's what a friend is, someone that understand. I know life is not easy for anyone, so I always try my best to be independent. I do like having a beer with my friend because it is a thing to do. Chilling, joking around and doing what guys do best, hang out. I like to Bar-B-Que, when I have my friends around. Drinking, Bar-B -Que and just hanging out that's my thing.
       When I was growing up, I moved around a lot and so friendship for me was short live but I still remember them all because we were friends. Friends come and go that's what I've learned,  as we all get older, we end up finding ourselves and going our own way in life. When we were young, hanging out with each others was a normal thing because that what all kids do.(got to much time)
         I know things change as we get older because we can't just keep hanging out like we use to because we gotta live our life but that is part of growing up. I think my friend would understand that. Being young it was cool to hang out all the time but as we all get older. We changes because girls come into our lives, not a bad thing because we can't be hanging out with guys all the time, it's gets old. Homie or not that real talk
          Being a father to my three kids and a husband to my wife full time is Not easy .(LOL) but I do enjoy it. So my times for my friend will be short now. Maybe we will see each other on our kids birthday or a holiday when we have time. Things is not going to be the same anymore because my kids and family will come first. Friends, if they understand then they will know and if not, well life goes on like they say.
          Friends will always understand that is why I never ask anything from a friend but I will still help if they ever need me but only if I can because I do have a family of my own. Friends, good for hanging out and having a beer. Getting together when we can because that what friends do. Time to grow up and understand what friendship mean. Friends to me is for hanging out and doing guy things because as a guy we all need that sometime. Friends are good for good times, that is it but finding a friend that understand that is hard to find. I might not have that much time for my friends anymore but I hope they understand that this is life ~real talk~

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