Grown..............Not Forever Young.................

" We get older not younger, Grow up before it's to late. Being grown is not about nexts weekend, it's about where am I gonna be in five years." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

     All I can say is that I'm grown and I don't have time for none sense or bull shit. I am a 32 year old man that knows what I want in life and know what I'm talking about. I still will never understand people that think they are forever young. I am young at heart but my lifestyle and thinking is grown. Trust me I can still party like a rock star , when I want to but I don't get to do it that much anymore. Being married and having three kids, I'm pretty busy. The only real party I get anymore are kids birtday party...fun, fun,fun..LOL but it is..
     I'm grown because I am always worrying about where I'm going to be in five years. I know I can't keep hanging out like I was a teen. It's fun and all but it gets old. I been kicking it and hanging out since I was 12 years old, kicking it so much that I drop out of school in the 10th grade. I'm still kicking myself everyday for that but it's all good because life goes on and you can't keep looking back.
    I so grown sometime that I don't even like being grown anymore that how grown I am. After I turn 21 years old I stop counting. I don't really like to celebrate my birthday either. Why? I'm only getting older. 21 was the last milestone for me because then I can buy alcohol, that was cool and I was loving it. So much so I got a DUI and then another one at 22, so you can say I know how to party but not like that anymore.
     I'm grown because my kids remind me everyday. My daughter always say to me, Daddy your old and all I can say is thanks for reminding me(princess). I'm so grown that I don't even do much anymore, just more worry about life and where I'm going to be later in life. My kids are getting older and yes that means me too. So I am worry about a lot of things now, not so fun sometime but I guess that's what being grown is.
     I'm not saying anything bad or complaining about it because I understand it. I know where I'm at in life and know where I wanna go that's what makes me grown. I like having the freedom to do what I what and when I want but I know I'll never have total freedom like being single with no kids but it's cool. I love my kids to much to think like that, I guess that's what makes me grown.
     People sometime look at being grown like it's  a bad thing but it's not. I like being grown but I like being young too, when I was young. I just enjoy life as I live it because that's what life is about. We live, we learn, we grow old and we all been young already. So take life as it is and nobody lives forever, so forever young I know I never be but I do enjoy everyday that I am living. Forever grown, forever young but I'll be forever me and that is enjoying whatever age I am because I get to be it only once. Young or old doesn't matter because we are all heading the same direction in life.~real talk~

No College Degree...........But It Still Can Be Done( learning the hard way)

"Don't need a college degree to be educated but you do need a college degree to get paid for what your worth." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

"A formal education will make you a living but self education will make you a fortune."~Jim Rohn~

         I had to learn my education the hard way, on my own and through my life experiences. I can tell you it was not easy but if I knew what I know now, I would have stayed in school. It's not easy learning on my own but I guess I had to because I didn't finish the schooling I needed. I made many mistake in my past but I don't regret anything I have done because everything I did, good and bad thought me so much.
          Life is my teacher because I am living it, if I don't learned from life, on my own then no one will teach me because to be thought something you don't know about you have to pay someone to teach you. I'm not going to keep being stupid about because I get it and I don't get mad about it. I just understand it, this is life and if you don't get it now then it will be your lost.
        I never been lost in my life because I always knew what I wanted out of life. Being a teen and having friends was a lot of fun but it never taught me much but how to have fun. I knew ever since I was young, I always want more out of life. I never like people telling me what to do and I think that is all of us. I am not a yes man but when I am at work ,I know I don't have that much choice but don't come at me the wrong way because I am grown.
           So no college degree here but when I look at my life accomplishment and all the things I been through. I am proud of myself to have made it this far. I never finish high school but I was still able to do everything that some people with a degree was able to do and more. I know so because I am living in a neighborhood full of people with college degree and I was only 27 when I bought my second home value at $428,000.00. I never made as much as a person with a college degree did but I was able to move in next door and they are all 10 years or more older then I am. I"m just wanna make my point that it can be done but it is up to the person to want it bad enough.
           My wife was layoff from her job in 2008 to 2011 then my dad past away on May 2009. We had our third child on Nov 2009 after that I moved my mom up to Washington State to help care for her. On Feb, 2010, I trademarked "MBN2B Life Passion Attitude Pride" Apparel and Must Be Nice! Kids Clothing for my Clothing business and I didn't know anything about making clothing or design at that time. Now here I am 2years later, still working on it and hope to get it done soon on my own or with a team ( doesn't matter).So no college degree but I'm still doing it.
           I did all my learning from life and listening to people that is willing to teach me. I didn't like to listen to anybody when I was younger but now I'm listening when they are talking. Listening to anyone that's already been there and understand it. Young mined people will never get till it's to late. Welcome to life learn from it.~real talk~

Dear, Homie and Friends.............Understand Why...............

  "Homie are friends and friends will always understand. Old Friends, New Friends, Future Friends and Facebook friends still we are all friends." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

      I grew up with many friends and yes they are my homie. Homie is a street slang for a friend but I am grown now so I don't really use that word anymore but maybe around my childhood friends that I grew up with. It's kinda crazy this Facebook stuff. I can say I am grateful for it because I moved around a lot and it is a nice way to stay in contact with old friends and homie.
     When I was young, friends was everything to me. I was always with them hang out, doing things and even doing things we were not suppose too but yes that is part of being a kid. Learning about life and friends along the way. I do have many friends from all walks of life and they are from every place I ever lived. I think I'm a good friend, if you really get to know me but anyway this is a letter to all my friends.
    New friends, old friends and future friends, I know some of us might not have known each other long, some we did everything together maybe some of us got into to it with each other but as friends we get over it and yes, I had many good times and some bad moment with all my friends good but as we get older. We all learned to change and try to find our own way in life. When we were young yes it was fun but that was when we were kids. Maybe some of us got into trouble with the law and maybe some even did times behind bar but that is also put of life that some of us have to learn the hard way.
    I did some jail time myself and yes I can say it was not worth it. I really didn't have anyone write me but it was cool because I understand. I never did write to any of my friends either when I was out and they were in. When I was in jail and doing my time, I just did my thing and didn't care if anyone write me or not. I didn't write to anyone either and it's not like I didn't have time too but what was I going to write about. How fun it is to be locked up.
    This is what I have learned about being locked up. We all got our own life that we live and we can't expect anyone to stop living their life and make time for the one that is locked up because like they say life goes on and it's not that I don't care for my friends or homie that was doing time. As for me I am trying my best to live life and make it myself. When some of my friends is locked up, I can't really do anything for them but when they get out, they can always find me and I will be there to help them out because this is when it matter most, that to me is what a homie or a friend is.
      So to all my homies and friends. I am here and still here for anyone if you need me but please understand that I have a family of my own now. I am trying my best to give my kids something I never had. Coming from a broken home and moving from state to state. I never had it that good in my life and I am now trying my best to give it to my kids. I know that if you have kids you'll understand. We will always be homie and friends but yes we all gotta grow up.
      We are not kids anymore, I understand that if you don't have time to come kick it, hang out, write or call, it's cool and that is why it's nice to have a Facebook page to stay in contact. I see you.We all still gotta live our own life and yes we might not talk to each other on it that much but that doesn't mean were not friends. It's just now our friendship is different from before because we not kids hanging out anymore.We now found out who we are in life and doing what is best for ourselves because we are grown. We are all busy trying our best to make it in this world but when I see you again for sure we will kick it and have a beer or two but you and I know things are not the same like it use to be because we are grown and that's real talk.

Death........ Only hard for the one that is living..............

       "Nobody lives forever and life goes on. So enjoy what you got." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

                                    
      Nobody wants to die but I can't pick the day I want to go. Life in this world will go on with out me and I know that, excepting death is not like it's a bad thing,it is part of life. If you understand life and then you know death is part of it. Nobody lives forever, so enjoy it whatever you got because you will never know when it will be your time.
      I don't want to die, well not right now but if something happen, what can I do? I know I don't want to live forever because forever is a long long time but while I'm here I'm gonna make the best out of it, like I say no time for drama because it's not worth it. I always told people that if this is haven(meaning the earth) I don't want to be here because I do believe that there is a better place for me after this but only if you believe in it and I do.
     I don't know when my day will come but I'm not going to wait for it, until then. I gotta live it up. So much to do in this world, I get high just thinking about it and that's real talk. I have always been a simple person, eat good, sleep good,I'm good never asking for to much.
    I remember when my dad die, it's wasn't easy for me to let go but what I have learned is that death is only hard for the people that is living. I didn't want to see my dad go but when I saw him dying in his death bed it was not easy. My dad was fighting to stay alive and I can see it. I was driving 10hr to go see him every weekend in the hospital. I love my dad and yes he means a lot to me that is why he is my dad. I know what it is like being a dad and it's not easy.
    When my dad gave his last breath and could not hold on anymore then the doctor ask me if I just wanted to let him go and I said (yes)Now he is in a better place. Seeing my dad like that was not what I wanted but I was glad I was there for his last breath. I know it was not easy at the time but I have come to understand that one day it will be me. I can say that my dad lived his life, he was 65 years old when he pass away. Love you dad and see you when I get there.
     Now I get it death is only hard for the people that is living because life does go on. I mean I was living my own life already and have kids of my own. So my parent is not that big of a part of my life anymore, they did their job and did the best they could for me. My mom is still living and she been sick for over 5 years now, living off a machine. She on dialyses three times a week because her Kinney does not work. She had told me she just waiting for her time because it can be any day now. She just turn 62 years old last year.
      I remember before I moved to Washington State. I just got out of jail in California and my mom told me Kit, I'm not going to be around for long and you need to learned to take care of yourself, I was 19 years old then. Ever since she told me that, I have been doing just that, taking care of myself. Like, I said before I moved her up here to be close to me and help care for her with my brother and sister. Now she is living near by me and I can see her anytime(so glad) but I do have my own life and my family that I have to care for but she understand because she is a mom also.
    Death is coming and I'm not scared because it is something I can not control but I do control how I live my life. I only want to do what's best for my kids because they are the one that matter most. I love life but I understand death is part of it. So to be able to live happy you can not worry about death. I'm living life and I know death is coming but until then what can I do but to be happy for now.~real talk~

What Friends?............They Come, They Go...........

   "Don't expect anything from a friend but understand why it is the way it is." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

      I don't except anything from my friends but just want them to understand me and come hang out every now and then. I know everyone got their own life they gotta live. So I understand what being a friend is about. Here is an ex-sample, I didn' have a ride to work one day and so I walked then a friend/co- worker ask me why didn't I call him and ask for a ride because we live near by each other. I said it's cool and I don't like bothering people.
       I think that's what a friend is, someone that understand. I know life is not easy for anyone, so I always try my best to be independent. I do like having a beer with my friend because it is a thing to do. Chilling, joking around and doing what guys do best, hang out. I like to Bar-B-Que, when I have my friends around. Drinking, Bar-B -Que and just hanging out that's my thing.
       When I was growing up, I moved around a lot and so friendship for me was short live but I still remember them all because we were friends. Friends come and go that's what I've learned,  as we all get older, we end up finding ourselves and going our own way in life. When we were young, hanging out with each others was a normal thing because that what all kids do.(got to much time)
         I know things change as we get older because we can't just keep hanging out like we use to because we gotta live our life but that is part of growing up. I think my friend would understand that. Being young it was cool to hang out all the time but as we all get older. We changes because girls come into our lives, not a bad thing because we can't be hanging out with guys all the time, it's gets old. Homie or not that real talk
          Being a father to my three kids and a husband to my wife full time is Not easy .(LOL) but I do enjoy it. So my times for my friend will be short now. Maybe we will see each other on our kids birthday or a holiday when we have time. Things is not going to be the same anymore because my kids and family will come first. Friends, if they understand then they will know and if not, well life goes on like they say.
          Friends will always understand that is why I never ask anything from a friend but I will still help if they ever need me but only if I can because I do have a family of my own. Friends, good for hanging out and having a beer. Getting together when we can because that what friends do. Time to grow up and understand what friendship mean. Friends to me is for hanging out and doing guy things because as a guy we all need that sometime. Friends are good for good times, that is it but finding a friend that understand that is hard to find. I might not have that much time for my friends anymore but I hope they understand that this is life ~real talk~

Money...........Don't Rain.......

"  Smart money is about making more with less, Money doesn't have a brain but we do." Simple, All men are created equal ~real talk~

     I don't make it rain because having come from a poor background. I appreciate every cent I can make because money doesn't come easy for me. No college degree to be able to make more. So I guess I can't make it rain. I know, how it feel to be hungry and now being grown I have to make money work for me. I don't make much and what I make, I must make it work. Like the saying goes trying to make a dollar out of fifteen cent. Peopel that knows me or see me, might think I got money or got it good but I don't, I'm just smart with it..It's not about how much you make but more about what you do with your money.~real talk~
     I been working for over eight years at the same place and never made more then most of my co-worker. They all love to talk about how much money they make and it's all good. I mean some of them make double what I make. I am a family of five, a dog with a mortgage and yes car payment. I know, I'm not the only one with these bill. I wish I could make money like them but I know it's not easy for me with a family of five, don't have time like that anymore but if I did, I would.
      Every dollar that I make, I will always try to invest it, so I can get more out of it. Spending money is easy but making it is hard unless you enjoy working more hours. Working is not that bad, just having to deal with co-worker is the hard part but we all still gotta eat, so we all gotta work. I been on my own for long enough and I know, how hard it is for me to make money.
      I remember selling my car to make the rent because I have too. Sometime we have to do what we have do and that is part of life. I never had that good in life, so I have learned to make money work for me. I did some jail time in North Seattle for a D.U.I. and was in there for two months. I was working in the jail house kitchen, washing dishes for $4.25 a day and that was eight hour of work. So I know, how hard it is to make money but sometime you gotta do what you gotta do. I was even able to save almost $100.00 buck before I got out. I had a lot of time to think about my life and read a lot of book (self help)that was a good thing.
      I guess doing some jail time was good for me, it kinda straighten me up for the better. I'll never make it rain with my money because I know, I don't got it like that and if I did, I wouldn't anyway. I'm only making enough to get by and always trying to stretch it out because I have to.
       I love money, just like everyone. I'm not cheap, I'm just smart with my money and I am fair with people. I take care of people that knows how to take care of me. I never ask for a hand out but will always try my best to help others. I work hard for my money, so every cent count. I can't make it rain but I still know how to have fun. I don't need to make it rain because I love my money to much. I don't floss or show off because I don't got it like that.
      If you got it good and can floss that, I ain't mad at you because I would too. Life is about living it up. So live it up and do your thing but remember money doesn't rain and if you can make it rain, make it rain over here because I'll pick it up(LOL).
       If you don't know what to do with your money by now then all I can say is that you don't know how much money matter. Working hard and making every cent count because money doesn't come easy for people like me without the right education. I am not going to be dumb with my money because I worked to hard to make it rain and you can call me cheap but to me it's about being smart. Smart money is about making more with less. ~real talk~

Ghetto.............Stop it ..............

 " Time to grow up and get real, Hip hop is cool but ghetto is not. The ghetto is not a place to be proud off. It's a place where many people is trying to get out. I understand it because I grew up around it but I will never be ghetto with ghetto attitude." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

       I know that I am going to piss some people off but it's cool because this is my opinion. I can say from my own experience in life. I would not want to be ghetto and that's real talk. I been there 1992 California. I have learned to change so much, a full 180 and it was not easy. Many people is trying to get out of the ghetto and you got some people that got it good trying to be ghetto (something wrong with there) Don't get me wrong I love hip hop music and all but being ghetto is one thing and hip hop lifestyle is another. I'm not talking about hip hop fashion or lifestyle at all, so don't get it mix up. I know what I am talking about.
        Ghetto people talk real ignorant, mostly cursing all the time and talk real dumb. Always get mad about everything like a little kid. Most ghetto people can't control their feeling and will act out if you piss them off. They can not control themselves and will not listen to reason but enough of that. I can't stand people talking ghetto. I just don't get it but I guess using made up word and short slang makes them sound hard... Really? Same and dumb words over and over does not make you hard or smart but just real ignorant, so just keep talking the way you do. Being ghetto is not something to be proud off.
        I am not trying to put anyone down but I just think we all can be better then that. I use to be the same, so who am I to talk. I am grown, I have kids and I want the best for them and ghetto they never will be. I worked to hard to beat the odd to make it and doing something with my life that has meaning. I have learned to change the way I talk and dress now for the better. I don't want anything to remind me of how tough it us to be for me. I am moving on and do something to better myself to do better in life.
        Ghetto people want respect but don't even know what respect is. Respect is something we give to each other man to man that real talk don't be ignorant about it because most of us are strong enough to hold our feeling back as a grown man and let ignorant be because it's not wroth it. Many of us are grown and understand life.Having a family and trying our best to give our kids something we never had. I work to hard to get the respect I want because respect as a man doesn't not come easy when we are always judge by the why we talk and dress. It is so hard for me to defend my generation sometime but I will always try because I understand. I came from the same background but sad to see my people that can do better but chose not too.Our parent came so far and try so hard to give us a this opportunity to better ourselves but most of us just throw it away.So much opportunity here for us all but only if you want it bad enough. I understand being young and not knowing but being grown and still don't know(something is wrong there)~.real talk~
        I am grateful for the opportunity that is given to me that is why, I am done with being ghetto and that is the past (so glad) trust me it was not easy trying to learn to change that why it takes a strong person . I am not a shame of my ghetto past because I know about it but to become better we must changed and that is why we left the hood because we want better. If I want better I need to learn to be better. I know what ghetto lifestyle got me and that is a whole bunch of drama over nothing and lack of understanding got me a lot of jail time. I'm glad that I made this far and never going back. I am not better, I just learned to be better then I use to be.~real talk~

SetBacks........Welcome to Life.......

     " Setbacks are part of life, deal with it, learn from it and move on." Simple, All men are created equal~real talk~

    What I have learned about setbacks is that it is part of life and nobodies life is perfect. I don't care who you are, money or no money we all get setbacks every now and then because it is part of life lesson. If life was made perfect then we don't need to think for ourselves. So welcome to life if you still don't get it.
     I have no regret in life, I have learned to move on and learn from my mistake. Accept it, learn from it and move on, this is how I deal with setbacks in my life. I had so much setbacks in my life but from all my setbacks I have learned from it and that is why I am a better person today. If I had to write down every setbacks or mistake in my life word by word it would be a book by it self, so I'm not going to write about all of them in deep detail.
    I was born in Laos in 1979 and just found out by my mom she wanted to give me up for adoption because she couldn't care for me, lucky my dad didn't want to give me up, thanks dad then my family and I became a refugee in Thailand and the Philippines at the age of 5 or 6 not sure because it's been to long. I came to America and was called a boater meaning someone that just got of the boat and didn't speak any English, duh how could we but anyway I got here on a Boeing plane if anybody didn't know that. People that was using a boat was way back then like the founder of America and the first wave of immigrant, everybody knows who they are and if you don't Google it.
     We landed in Cleveland, Ohio 1987.Thanks to the two Church that sponsor us to bring us here. Dad bought a home for the family 1989, mom left dad 1992 and took the kids to Redding, California. Blood and Crip gangs was everywhere, Welcome to Cali life and if you don't know Google (gangs of L.A). 1996, I moved back to Cleveland to stay with my dad and then got in some trouble as a teen.  I had just gotten my diver license at 16 and then lost it a year later because of run in with the law. Got locked up and did sometime in juvenile hall.
     When I got out of juvenile hall, I moved back to California with mom again, try to go back to school but didn't have enough credit to graduate with my class mate, class of 1998. So I went and took a test to get my G.E.D, pass it 1997. moved out of Redding, Ca to the bay Area to look for a job and I told my mom that when I turn 18, I was moving out never been back since better yet I moved mom to stay with me in 2009 when my 3rd child was born but before all that I was in Kansas and traveling around the State for a little bite. I just got out of jail again before moving to Washington State on Aug,1998.
     2001 got my first DUI and then 2002 got my second DUI not so nice but anyway the judge made me stay in jail for 2 month to think about it. I guess it was a good thing because I did think about it and even save up $75.00 before I got out. I was working in the jail house kitchen washing the dish for $4.25 a day and that is eight hour of working. When I got out of jail I had told myself no more trouble and then I went to get a job then met my girlfriend. Now she is my wife.
       Married my wife in 2003 and had our first child 2004. After that I was working on cleaning up my bad credit, it took me over a year to do that then we bought our first home 2005, had our second child 2006 and finally got my diver license back after almost ten years. 2007 we bought our second home, I was 27 years old and my wife was 23 years old then at the end of 2007 the housing market crash. 2008 my wife got laid off and both our two homes lost value by every month and now my home value is half of what I bought it for. I went and got a second full time job just to make end meet because I didn't want to lose everything we work so hard for then she had gotten pregnant again in 2009 with our third child then my dad past away May 2009 and when my son was born Nov, 2009. I went down to California to move my mom and mentally challenge older brother here to Washington State. I Had to give up on my first home/ rental too because it was getting to much for me to handle 2010 then that when I trademarked "Must Be Nice" for kids clothing and "MBN2B Life Passion Attitude Pride" apparel for adult.
       Now here I am still doing it and hopefully I can get this done soon with my wife now working it gonna me help out a lot more, she was laid of for over 2 years. She just started her job July 2011. So setbacks I know a little thing about it. Don't let setbacks in life stop you from doing anything you want. We all get it but it's takes a strong person to over come and learn from it.~real talk~

Jealousy & Envy............

     " Jealousy and envy is not your friend. So don't be." Simple, All men are created equal~real talk~

      People that are jealous and envious of others are the worst people I know. I am so glad I have never been like that at all. I never been jealous of anyone in my life. Growing up I never had that much of anything and really never got anything new that why I started working young maybe before I was 12 years old ( I think). My family was even on welfare for a little bite. Everyone needs a helping hand every now and then. My family and I came from Laos, so we didn't have much when we started life in America.
      We came here for a better life and so I know how hard it is to make it. Trust me, it was not easy for my parent but I'm grateful that they did. Jealous of what? I've been poor and even my own kind use to say things to me when we got here. Say things like I'm ugly and make fun of the way I use to talk because I just got here to the State and now I have learned to talk better but still get tease. Really? I know, I can never please everyone but I don't care because it's not about them, it's about me.
      I've never been jealous about anything from friends to girl friends and money. I only care when they care and trust me it's not that hard for me to make new one, with so many people and money to be made in this world. I don't have time to be jealous or envy anyone, to much money to be made, I can't get it all and even Bill Gate can't get it all, so don't worry money, is not going to run out any time soon. The only thing different about making money is that it takes money to make money. Friends is easy and they are everywhere, as long as you don't got an ego, you'll be fine. Girls are everywhere too and there is one good girl for every good guy, you just gotta treat them right, easy. right?
      So that is why I'm glad, I am not like that. I will never understand people like that because we all can think for our self. I am no different from anyone but the only thing that makes me strong is my will to succeed in life. I been put down all my life and don't think that I am doing this to prove people wrong. I am doing this for myself and my family. Like I always told my wife, if I do things to prove people wrong or to show off then I am doing it for the wrong reason. People need to quit being jealous and start doing shit.~real talk~

Like or Don't Like..............

   " It's not about you, It's about me. Be who you are. Simple" All men are created equal.~real talk~

                                                     
   It's really not my job to make someone like me but I will make it my job to make sure that we can coexist because I don't want a headache. I will try my best to get along with people because I am tired of drama over nothing and most of the time people really think that they are something special. Don't like me it's not my problem but if you really get to know me then you can make up your own mind about it.
   I have grown a lot and understand a lot about people. People will always think with their feeling and make judgement. Some people make opinion base on lifestyle and image but with me, I don't care about any of that, I am a person that care about facts and peoples action that lets me make up my judgement about them. I will always give people chances to let me learn about who they are.
   If I don't know then I can not judge but I will  always be me. I don't like fake people and I can say most people are fake. Be real with who you are and don't make any judgement until you know someone. I can not judge, if I don't know, simple~real talk~
   Many people might think that people would like to be liked by others but I can tell you that most people don't care and if I am nice to you, doesn't mean I like you. You would know if I like you or not but I am nice most of the time and I do like people because I understand life. I don't need drama over little things and don't want to deal with people inability to control their emotion or stereotype about others that they don't know about.
   I am not a hater and I really don't care where you are in life or where you are from but I will always try my best to be nice to people because I just want to enjoy my life with less or no stress as possible. I been through enough in my life and I have seen so much. I get so tired of dealing with people sometime but I know it is part of life and I will always try my best. Learning to get along with others is easy when you don't let your feeling control you. ~real talk~

Stop the Hate..............It's not a Good Thing........

       " Hate will destroy you, think about it. Simple" All men are created equal~ real talk~

     I don't like using the word hate and I don't let my kids use this word either that how much I don't like the word but I know it is part of life. Their will always be people that hate and the reason why people hate is because they don't understand life or people. I don't like anyone that have hate in them and trust me I know it because it is so easy to read on people.
      Everybody knows what a hater is and a hater to me is just someone that just doesn't want anybody to be better then them but the way I look at why be mad at someone else for doing better or being better. You got a brain, so think for yourself and quite worrying about what someone is doing to better them self. If you got that much time to really worry about what someone else is doing to better  them self, learn from them because they know what they are doing and that is why you are hating. If you can't beat them or be better then them, then learn from them. Right?
     I don't know, I just don't get it sometime but for me I will always help anyone that want to learn from me because I understand and I been there. People will never help you to better yourself but it is up to you and you can't be mad at them, if they don't want to help you because you got a brain and God gave everyone the same gift. So don't blame him or anyone if things are not going good for you.
    I been there and people with money always think they are something special, just because they got a better paying job or a job with a title but with me it doesn't matter because at the end of day we are all still working to make a living. We all gotta eat and deal with the same shit good, bad, ups and downs we all got it. So don't think that anyone is better then anyone.
   Hate comes in so many ways but all hate is bad and nothing good comes from from hating anyone. Trust me I know, I am from Laos growing up in America and trying to learn and understand American value and idea. So you can't tell me I don't know anything about hate. I been hated on by many and from all kinds of people and even by my own kind but what I have learned is that there are good and bad people from all side. I use to hate people that hated me but that was when I didn't understand life or people. Hate come from lack of understanding~real talk~
    Martin Luther King Jr said it best " Don't judge a man by the color of his skin but judge him by the content of his character."