Change............Nobody likes it...............

"Change is something we learn to do, even if we don't want to because change is part of growing up, Change is not a bad thing when we change to become better."~real talk~

    Many people I know don't want to change and they wonder why their life is still the same with the same drama. I changed 180 and will never go back. I think most people don't want to change because that they are afraid to change. Change is about doing something different and getting out of your comfort zone.
     I know it wasn't easy for me and I don't think it is easy for anybody. I have learned to understand the world around me and I think that is just part of growing up. Learning to accept how things works because it's a big world out there and it's not just about you or me.
     I use to get mad at the system because I was always in trouble with the law but as I got older I understand that everybody is just doing their job. The system is already set up the way it is and if you don't like it, well you better learn to accept it to just to make it easy on yourself.
     I am married and is a family man, so for me the system is a good thing, so just as long as I keep within the line. I can say it's not easy all the time but you learned to just deal with it because we can't all just do what we want when we want.
      Change for me is a very good thing and yes I'm not the same person that I use to be because before I was just a kid learning about life, I didn't understand everything and I don't think any kids does. I try not to get to up set with my kids because I understand that they are still a kid and they still have a long ways to go but it's not easy all the time, I can say that.
      I never thought that I would change anything about myself when I was younger but as I got older. I started to change everything about myself from how I dress, how I talk and if need be change the people around me, not say that I am better but if I want better, I better get a better team of people around me. Get the people that will help you to become successful and not the people that put you down all the time because that's what good people or friends do for each other. Come see me if you ever need help and my hand will always be out there but I never see the same in return. So now should I change the people around me? I think so...... Change it's a good thing...do it for yourself because you deserve it......