Change............Nobody likes it...............

"Change is something we learn to do, even if we don't want to because change is part of growing up, Change is not a bad thing when we change to become better."~real talk~

    Many people I know don't want to change and they wonder why their life is still the same with the same drama. I changed 180 and will never go back. I think most people don't want to change because that they are afraid to change. Change is about doing something different and getting out of your comfort zone.
     I know it wasn't easy for me and I don't think it is easy for anybody. I have learned to understand the world around me and I think that is just part of growing up. Learning to accept how things works because it's a big world out there and it's not just about you or me.
     I use to get mad at the system because I was always in trouble with the law but as I got older I understand that everybody is just doing their job. The system is already set up the way it is and if you don't like it, well you better learn to accept it to just to make it easy on yourself.
     I am married and is a family man, so for me the system is a good thing, so just as long as I keep within the line. I can say it's not easy all the time but you learned to just deal with it because we can't all just do what we want when we want.
      Change for me is a very good thing and yes I'm not the same person that I use to be because before I was just a kid learning about life, I didn't understand everything and I don't think any kids does. I try not to get to up set with my kids because I understand that they are still a kid and they still have a long ways to go but it's not easy all the time, I can say that.
      I never thought that I would change anything about myself when I was younger but as I got older. I started to change everything about myself from how I dress, how I talk and if need be change the people around me, not say that I am better but if I want better, I better get a better team of people around me. Get the people that will help you to become successful and not the people that put you down all the time because that's what good people or friends do for each other. Come see me if you ever need help and my hand will always be out there but I never see the same in return. So now should I change the people around me? I think so...... Change it's a good thing...do it for yourself because you deserve it......
   

Love.......................is Crazy................

"Being in love can drive a person crazy sometime but I guess that's what love is. Love is about understanding, love is feeling, love is caring, love is crazy at times and it makes you do stupid things but that's what real love is...." Simple. ~real talk~

  "A good woman believes in her man sticks by him and helps him reach his dreams a good man in return gives her the world and everything in it. Everything always comes full. circle."

    I'm not going to say that love is easy or that I am an expert at love but I do know something about love because love is a feeling that we all have. Good person or a bad person but love is something that we all want. I love  my wife, our kids, family and friends that are good to me.
    I am now married for over 8 years and still going but it not easy because we are two very different people that do love each other and want it to work. I am not trying to be right about everything all the time but I am trying to do what is best for us to make it work.
    I am a guy and so I will see things very different for my wife but that doesn't mean we can't make it work. I do make bad choices sometime but that's because I'm human. Like, I said I'm not perfect but I will always try my best. I'm not trying to make and excuse about everything that goes wrong. I will make mistake along the way because I am living and is always still learning.
   Love is crazy because how it's works sometime. I really don't think that anyone is perfect at this love thing. Two people working together at anything is never easy and with love, I think it is even harder because of our feeling. Love is a feeling and when feeling get involve in anything it's never easy.
   Even loving my kids is not easy, I mean it is easy in sense that they are my kids and I want nothing but the best for them but I know it not easy at times because of the love I have for them but like I say love it's not easy. Love is a feeling and when our feeling get into it, it gets harder.
   I don't think there is any perfect relationship when it comes to love because love to me is a work in progress. Love is something we build with the people we love to make it stronger from learning from each other and showing each other how much we love one another. It is about being willing to do whatever to make it work.
   Love is something everybody wants but you have to know how to love to be love, Simple take how you want it but feeling is something we all have and love is something we all want..........