The Modern Man..................Understand Him...........

" The modern man is a man that understand the world around him. Never letting his feeling control his judgement and know that all men are equal." Simple ~real talk~

    It is not so easy now a days with so many different kinds of men becoming successful from many walk of life. I would think of myself to be a modern man but I know everyone will have their own opinion and so this will be mine.
     A modern man is a man that understand the world around him. A person with integrity and good judgement. A modern man knows how to dress for the occasion and will always dress in a respectable manner. Never letting his personal feeling get the best of him and never letting his ideology over take his common sense. Always doing what he feel that is right but will always listen to reason. A modern man is always learning from his environment and listening when someone is talking. He is always keeping an open mind to every topic and keeping his judgement in reserve.
     So many men, in so many category with so many different up bringing. People personal up bringing or the environment they came from should not matter as much but what matter more is how the man turn out as an adult. A modern man should be judge for his character and his accomplishment in life. I am proof that my poor and rough up bringing did not make me a bitter man, it made me a more understanding and humble man.
      A modern man is a man that is grown and knows how to act his age. Giving respect to anyone that he meets in life. Respect for a modern man is very important because as a man you want to be respected. Being respected is always and will be a man thing. Many men have ego and many men have pride but with me, I am more of a man with pride then ego. I understand that it is almost the same thing but pride is what I feel fit for me.
       Pride to me is about standing on principle and ego is about enforcing your will to be respected or understood. I not a man of ego but more of pride, pride in what I do and pride in who I am because with pride I don't have to prove to anyone but myself. Pride is about who I am and what I stand for doing whatever I do with passion not matter what that is that I do in life and just being the best I can be.
        The modern man knows how to keep everything in balance from his work, family, friends and play. He knows his priority and knows what needs to be done. Living his life to be the best that he can be that to me is what the modern man is..