The Modern Man..................Understand Him...........

" The modern man is a man that understand the world around him. Never letting his feeling control his judgement and know that all men are equal." Simple ~real talk~

    It is not so easy now a days with so many different kinds of men becoming successful from many walk of life. I would think of myself to be a modern man but I know everyone will have their own opinion and so this will be mine.
     A modern man is a man that understand the world around him. A person with integrity and good judgement. A modern man knows how to dress for the occasion and will always dress in a respectable manner. Never letting his personal feeling get the best of him and never letting his ideology over take his common sense. Always doing what he feel that is right but will always listen to reason. A modern man is always learning from his environment and listening when someone is talking. He is always keeping an open mind to every topic and keeping his judgement in reserve.
     So many men, in so many category with so many different up bringing. People personal up bringing or the environment they came from should not matter as much but what matter more is how the man turn out as an adult. A modern man should be judge for his character and his accomplishment in life. I am proof that my poor and rough up bringing did not make me a bitter man, it made me a more understanding and humble man.
      A modern man is a man that is grown and knows how to act his age. Giving respect to anyone that he meets in life. Respect for a modern man is very important because as a man you want to be respected. Being respected is always and will be a man thing. Many men have ego and many men have pride but with me, I am more of a man with pride then ego. I understand that it is almost the same thing but pride is what I feel fit for me.
       Pride to me is about standing on principle and ego is about enforcing your will to be respected or understood. I not a man of ego but more of pride, pride in what I do and pride in who I am because with pride I don't have to prove to anyone but myself. Pride is about who I am and what I stand for doing whatever I do with passion not matter what that is that I do in life and just being the best I can be.
        The modern man knows how to keep everything in balance from his work, family, friends and play. He knows his priority and knows what needs to be done. Living his life to be the best that he can be that to me is what the modern man is..

In America...Anything is Possible.....Miss Minnesota 2012

" Really, it happen..A refugee born immigrants..Miss Minnesota 2012. A Laos girl." Simple All men and women are created equal.~real talk~

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     The American dream, I believe it because in America anything is possible. America is the land of opportunity and it is for anyone that wants it bad enough. Never say never and just go for it. America put a man on the moon that right there just shows you that you can make what you want real but only if you believe in yourself and work hard for it.
    I can say that I am so proud of her Miss Minnesota 2012, not just because she is from Laos like me but I can understand how hard it is to get to a goal of wanting something so bad and you know the odds are against you. Living in a country that sometime might think you will ever be accepted because the fact that you was not born here or look like a typical American person.
     I have come a long way myself to learn to understand America and it's American value. America will always accept you not matter what, that is why we were given the chances to come here and pursue the American dream. America is a country that was build from immigrant.
     Living in America you have to learn to understand the American value and that is how you become successful. I love it here because you can always be yourself. Being American is about American value that to me is what I have come to learned.
     America is a country that believe in it's people and that is why we have the freedom to pursuer our own dream by our self. The only person that can stop us is our self. Everything has been done here in America from having nothing to having everything, anybody can do it. I am proof my self, a refugee from Laos chasing my American dream to make it to where I want to be. A man that is driven in life to become successful and it is all possible in America the land of opportunity. I am living the American dream everyday because that is what being in America is about. Live your life, chase your dream, the American dream because it is Possible, just go get it! ~real talk~

Tired of Drama..................Play Fake..............

" I guess being fake sometime does help. Some people are not wroth the time to even be real with because they just won't get it." Simple, All men are created equal.~real talk~

     I really don't like to play fake but sometime I understand that you have too because some people are not wroth the time. Some argument is not wroth arguing and most drama are a wast of time. I have come a long why to learn to understand that holding my personal feeling about things or others inside to keep myself away from drama.
     I been around a lot of drama in my life time and all the drama that I have been in, was never really wroth my time. People can be a pain sometime but we have to learn to deal with each other. The best way to deal with people is not to get into and argument with them about things.
     I've learned to keep my opinion to myself ,when I know that the other person will not listen to reason. I think I am very open mined when it comes to listening to others opinion but I don't think that most people feel the same. People want to always think that they area lways right. I know that I don't know everything and I don't think any one person does but if I don't know something, I will not lie about it. I am a person of facts and not about my personal view or feeling will ever get in the way.
     Everybody wants to be the person that is always right. I'm not always right that why when I don't know something I will just say I don't know. Many people love to talk with their feeling when talking. I don't like to put to much of what I feel into what I am talking about because that is my personal feeling or opinion. I know some people will not understand my point of view.
     This is life and most drama are not worth the time. Nobody is paying my bills for me or is worry about my life. So this is how I deal with people. Play fake when I have too because drama over personal differences is not wroth it. Sometime it is best to just play along with people, so that drama doesn't break out. It's not about being fake, it's about not having to deal with drama. Less drama in life then the more happy we will be. Life I  get it, less drama more time for the things that matter.. simple real talk.........

Don't Need 2 Care....................4 Real...........

"Life can be tricky at times because of the game people play, be real with who you are and life will be just fine." Simple, .~real talk~

    I sometime do get tired of dealing with people because of the game people play.  Like I say I'm not perfect and nobody is but come on people let's get real. Don't need to front like they care because I get it this is life and we all trying to win but if you are real with it then that's cool.
     Dealing with people is not easy because people can be selfish at time. I mean don't get me wrong, I'm in it for the same thing but I ain't hating on anyone that can get it. If you want to be cool then be cool, don't need to hate because hating doesn't get you far in life.
     So, so tired, I'm not anti social but if I have to deal with fake people, I might as well be by myself and that's real talk. I don't want to have to deal with people that is always so worry about what others think. I just want to chill and live my life nicely.
     I know we have to always deal with people because that is part of life but when others see that you are doing better then them, that is when they start hating but I guess that's part of life too. I wanna be rich but who doesn't? Life, it's about how hard you are willing to work for it, that gets you there.
     Don't need to care but I always play nice because I know I have too. Life is not just about me but it is also about people around me. My greatest joy would be spending time with my wife and our kids. I do enjoy hang out with others also but not to much because it is a lot of work. Having a party and a get together every now and then is cool.
      I care only if people around me care because I understand life. I know this world is bigger then us all but in life we all just want to be happy. Happy is only easy for the people that get it. Life it's simple as back and white. I get it and I don't need to care for people that don't care. I only care if people around me care and that's real talk.......