It's Not Destiny? It's A Choice.....

           "Destiny is a choice, Destiny is up to you. Simple" All men are created equal~real talk~

     I believe in destiny and many people do but for me destiny is about choices and action. I'm saying that our action lead us to our destiny from our love life to our dreams, it's all a choice. What we chose to do, lead us to where we will be or will become. Destiny is not something that is set for us from a higher power because if it is and I die today would that be my destiny? I believe that my destiny is my choice and what I want out of life will be my destiny. Many people like to think that our destiny is set for us.I don't know, maybe in some whys that might be true because like they say that 10 % of what happen to us we can not control but 90 % is how we react to it. So now is it more of a choice or destiny?
     No not me, Destiny for me is about taking chances in life and finding true happiness with who we are or have become. I know the meaning of the word destiny but I think people like to say it because it sounds good and it makes them feel better about the situation that they are in but only if the situation is good (right) So what if? I am in a bad situation that I am not happy about it, is it to my destiny to be where I am. No, because destiny is a course of action that lead us to where we are.
     That's why I believe Destiny is more of a choice.We live, we learn and we become better as people and I think that should be everyone destiny right? but I know that it is not always true. So destiny for me, will always be about the choices we make in life, that will take us to where we want to be (true?) This will be my destiny because this is what I want.~real talk~

"Destiny is seen as the final outcome, independent of the events that precede, which are inevitable and unchangeable per themselves, but as a sequence, could be arranged and rearranged in order to arrive to the final outcome.There is the often confusing argument that individuals can choose their own destiny by selecting different "paths" throughout their life, even though the different courses of action the individuals take nonetheless lead to a very predetermined destiny.To escape the contradiction (the incompatibility of philosophical terminology) of this argument and fully support the concept of destiny, most believe it necessaeclare and accept this notion of choice (free will) as illusion. Another belief, known as Micaic Destiny, states that free will and destiny can coincide in harmony. This argument states that we all make only one unchangeable choice every moment. Simply because a certain choice will inevitably be made does NOT mean that we do not make our own decisions. This belief assumes that we have no power to accurately and precisely predict the future." But anyway that is the true definition of destiny..take it how you want it. ~real talk~

Money is not Everything, It's the Only Thing......

 " You got it or you don't and if you want it, go get it. Simple" All men are created equal.~real talk~

 

    I will never understand people people that say money is not everything. I will have to disagree, to me money is everything, like I say it's the only thing just look around you everything cost money and just to be able to do anything it cost money. Tell me why do we do the things we do everyday if it's not about money. Work, food, shopping and everything in between is about money. I have never got anything for free that I really wanted and if I did get it for free, it's still not free because somebody else had to pay for it before I got it.
    Love, family, friends,good times they all cost money and they say money can't buy you happiness. Really? I don't know but  money can buy me a piece of mind, everybody I know is all about their money. I have not yet met anyone that is not about their money. Family, friends and love, it all cost money an a lot of it just to keep it together to be happy(right?)
    Money can not make someone love you but money will make them give you a better chance at love. If guy is over weight or not so good looking but have lots of money. I bet you he will get a better chance at a girl he wants. I am not saying money can make a girl like him but I'm just saying money get him a better chance. What girl in their right mind wants a guy with no money (come on). I am not saying all girls are money face but just saying girls want happiness and what is happiness for a girl?( shopping)
   Nobody wants to hang out with someone that is broke, come on you how fun that will be, right?See how many people wants to hang out with you if you are broke and got no money(now who's money face?) Me, not trying to be  about money all the time but money is part of life and money make the world go round. Love it or hate it but you have to appreciate it for me I love money and I understand what's money is.
    I'm not rich but I'm doing just fine and trying to get there someday, like everyone else and if I never get there. I'll always be happy to be where I'm at. I understand money and so I know how to use my money right. Everybody wants money but wanting is not enough. Money is about hard work. Nobody become rich over night from P.Diddy to Bill Gate and everyone that made it there. Go ahead and ask them, if it was easy? or just check out their story. I did and that why I know.
   Money makes lazy people work and makes people that wants more work harder. They say 65% of marriages ends up in divorce because of money ( wonder why?). Guys probably will love a girl with no money but will a girl love a guy with no money? and if so, for how long? before she figures it out.
This is real talk I can keep going but I think it's enough for now....